... and here's the thing, your sympathy or my sympathy has no bearing on anything, and doesn't change the situation. So I find it funny that anyone would say, after someone died "Gee, I hope he wasn't drunk." ... like him being drunk would make him any more dead than he already is. It makes no sense to me. I'm also not conceited enough to worry about whether or not people "deserve" my emotions, or actions. Yes, I might not feel sympathy, or do feel sympathy, but never do I pay it any thought as to whether it's because that person deserved it.
Well, then we shall simply disagree on this matter. And everyone else may agree with you on this matter, and thats fine. All i know is how i feel on it, and what my reactions are. Im not going to delve into the personal reasons why i think this, but there are reasons for it, especially concerning suicide.
On the other hand...when people do stupid crap, the results can turn tragic yes. All im saying is im not going to have the same type of sympathy for someone who dies because they did something dumb, opposed to someone who is just the victim of unfortunate circumstance.