Please Register or Log in to Remove this Advertisement! I try to remind myself that people put up with me, and I know I'm a pain at times. So I try to cut others some slack......easier said than done sometimes :) It may take Urlacher a few years to let it go, as far as the way his career ended. Or, he may never get over it. But for his own sake, I hope he just let's it go at some point and enjoys the rest of his life. Life is more than a job, even a great job as a great NFL player. There's more to life than that. And life is too short to waste it being bitter.